Planned Parenthood urges males to see a doctor if groin pain occurs after intercourse of any kind. It was very pleasurable for him, but for me, not so much I expected that. You can lose it again. Needless to say, neither of us got off. The change can take on many forms and this is normal, too. First off, virginity is a social construct. It lasted a whole 10 seconds—I kid you not.
For example, some of my teen patients have questions about a partner male or female inserting a finger into a vagina. Your urethra is a tiny hole above your vaginal opening where pee comes out AKA it's not involved in any kind of penetration. If you have romanticized the experience of sex for the first time in your mind, this may cause you to feel more attached to the other person simply because that's what you expect to happen, or because you feel it's what's expected of you. Real talk: Losing your virginity can bring you and your bae closer. Of course the ovaries and uterus are not visible without special paraphernalia. Despite what you see on TV and in movies, having sex for the first time is rarely romantic, pleasant, or sexy.
